Love is as Love does ..

So how do you nurse a heartbroken 15 years old?

Just hurts to know she's hurting inside. You can only tell her to be strong, that she deserves better and that she'll meet more people and places to go. More importantly, she have a choice, and all hers to make.

"Now I know how you felt ummi" cried the first born as I hugged her and wiped her tears. My heart cried with her today.

Baby, you can never know how I felt. And I've prayed that you will never know how it felt. Never sweetie because you WILL have someone who loves you more than you love him and who will never ever make you shed another tear.

Somehow I knew it was difficult for her to let go. The good memories, the good times.

It just seems like dejavu.

Not able to let go is a great weakness. My weakness ... for the longest time.

However life is a process as with everything else it presents:

Frustrations before satisfactions, failure before success ... sadness before happiness .... chaos before peace .... weakness before strength.

I have found my strength, and you will too in time in your own way. But for now, you have the luxury of choice.

True Love shouldn't hurt because if it does, then it's not.

Lucky few found it because for the rest of us, we are just content to settle for less. I hope you don't.

You will find your One True Love in time ... and only time will heal all wounds. Baby, cry all you want and may it wash away all your sorrows.

We'll always be here for you.. and one thing baby, no one loves you more than I do.